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Why I’m Quitting My Amazing Job Without a Real Plan

Hi. I'm Reyna. I'm quitting my picture perfect, amazing job.

I work at one of those hip and progressive tech places where they geek out on dreaming and feed you endlessly.

Yes, that's a football field. Yes, there's a real dream room staffed by a real Dream Manager.

I'm honestly surrounded by the smartest humans in the world.

I feel valued. I feel fairly-compensated. The work I do provides purpose and pride.

Here's the thing. There's always a thing, right?

The thing: I stumbled upon manifesting.

Wait. Before I lose you with the woo-woo word manifesting, hear me out.

WORKING BACKWARDS

With this process, I hyper-focused on who I would be 10 years from now. I created the most amazing version of me. I created the stories she had. I envisioned where she had traveled.
I created her laugh lines and sun spots. I put her on a pedestal of bad-assery.

The hypothetical me in 10 years is so cool. I am bursting with excitement with who she is.

This is where my light bulb went off.

Even though I'm perfectly happy with where I am right now, there's no way the path that I'm on takes me to hypothetical awesome me. Insert mind-blown emoji here.

MATH

I've never really been great at math, but this equation didn't compute.

Mantra: Present Version Me Plus 10 More Years Doing What I'm Doing Does Not Equal Bad Ass Me

When I reverse engineer the life I want with my present job in the mix: salary, time off, creativity, it just doesn't compute.

Work backwards.

The kicker is I'm not 100% sure what I'm going to do for the sake of income. I'll probably manifest that too.

What I know is I can't stay where I'm at any longer. Because it's not on my path. I'm not going to get where I want where I am.

AIRPLANES

Courage occurs to me like this: When we make a drastic change in life, it's kinda like jumping out of an airplane. We want to get the plane as close to the ground as possible before we jump, but we still have to jump out a freaking airplane.


So I'm jumping. I'm closing my eyes, and I'm taking the next small step before I have a chance to change my mind. Or get scared. Or self-doubt catches up with my logic.

There you go. That's the why.

Does that ring true with you? When you envision the version of you 10 years from, are you really on the right path? Does a + b = c?

We usually make changes in our life when the pain is too great. I encourage you as you read this to possibly evaluate a situation if your life where there isn't a great deal of pain, but it isn't leading you to the happiest and greatest version of yourself.

CHOOSE YOUR OWN ADVENTURE

Yes, it has come to my attention that "Make It Rain" originates from a vulgar rap song referencing dollar bills and strippers. But, come on.  It's punny!

I hereby intentionally declare the "Make It Rain" narrative altered. From this moment on, this site is dedicated to creating the life you want.

The adventures and lessons are yet to come on my hot and fresh journey.

I'll fill this blog with:
fembot entrepreneur adventures
hard lessons learned
inter-continental escapades
Cheers to your adventure,

xoxo

Reyna
PS - Do you like presents? If this math resonates, that image up there is a desktop background for your phone.

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  • Brianna says:

    Best thing I have ever read ❤❤

  • Lizzy says:

    I love this! Life is SO SO SO short! It’s easy to become complacent and work a “job”. Mega kudos to you for finding your JOY!!

  • Anjie Roberson says:

    slay girl, SLAY.

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • Andrea says:

    Oh my goodness, Reyna… Reading this made me feel like a superhero because of YOUR superhero-ness. I’m SO proud of you!

  • Kitty says:

    Reyna this is your time to become Reynbow! ? You are smart, know this how to do from the guts and you are encouraged enough to experience the ‘leap of faith’. You got this better than any of us!! Looking forward to reading more from you and to reaching crazy goals together!
    You will be a great inspiration for many.

  • Pam says:

    Reyna,.. I have no doubt you will continue to do great things in your future!… .You are amazing, inspiring & beautiful!! I love you so much!!

  • Lenard says:

    I like this blog, keep them coming. I hard when you can choose between an easy road and the hard one go for the hard as at the end you will be much more happier with it! 🙂 You are on the right road! 😉

  • Marissa M. says:

    Reyna – This is awesome! I think you’re on to something great!! If anyone can succeed at finding their future bad-ass self, it’s you ?.

  • Rick Borden says:

    This is a very exciting time for you Reyna. As you start your journey continue to Begin with the End in Mind. It will never let you forget your #BigWhy. Be Intentional in all that you do.

    Faith and Fearcannot walk Together…
    We can Excuses or Results not Both…
    Begin with the End in Mind…
    EGO = Edging God Out!

    God Bless and Keep your Faith.

    Rick Borden, MSL
    Keller Williams Arizona Realty
    Scottsdale, Arizona 85260

  • Bonnie says:

    Yay!!! This awesome! Having done something similar 10 years ago I can say it’s totally worth it. Have a blast! Much love x

  • Stephenie says:

    You will never stop inspiring me. I’ll see you in 2-4 😉

  • kara pierce says:

    Make it Reyna!!!! i love you SOSOSOSO much and I am so proud to be a part of your life. Go get ’em girl!!!

  • Victoria says:

    The first word that comes to mind after reading this: FINALLY! You’re are meant to do amazing, badass things in this world. So happy to see you’re taking that leap. You’re such an inspiration 😀

    Love you, my sweet friend. So FREAKING proud of you and excited to watch you flourish. Now go kick some ass!

  • Georgi says:

    I know it sounds corny, but I am so proud of you Reyna. So much love and light your way my friend. You are an inspiring example of courage and faith.

  • Chris Lee says:

    I think you are spot on!

    Your realization is basically the same one that I had that fueled the desire to pivot our entire company. One day I realized that our company was pretty much at the same place it was 10 years ago. Still great. Still supporting us all but we were working like crazy & not enjoying the work. I realized that if we were in the same place 10 years later that I would be terribly unhappy. So we completely pivoted from medium sized CRM to what we’re doing now.

    It’s was tough managing the transition, essentially building a new practice while maintaining the old one but we’re almost there. So much happier now. So much more joy in the work. Still working too much & not achieved the scalability that I know is possible but we have made great steps there & will continue to do so.

    Anyway, great decision and best of luck to you!

  • Lyndi MacRae says:

    I absolutely love this Reyna – change is here

  • Mike says:

    🙂 ❤️

  • Robert says:

    Congratulations on this big move, Reyna! I’m glad that I had the opportunity to learn from you (albeit for a short time.) I’m just coming off of going through a very similar process — it’s exciting and scary all at the same time, but diving in head first is the best way to see it through. If I can be of any help, please let me know.

    • admin says:

      Thank you, Robert – It’s so wonderful to hear that I’m not alone in this crazy way of thinking. It’s terrifying! But waking up one day to a life I don’t love is more terrifying.

  • Jake says:

    This is amazing!!!

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